At The Refined Man, we believe a true gentleman’s grooming routine goes beyond a great haircut. A clean fade or tight beard line is just the start — how you take care of yourself day-to-day matters just as much. Grooming is about self-respect, confidence, and presenting your best self to the world, whether you’re heading into a meeting or a weekend hike in the Pacific Northwest.
Whether you’re a longtime client in Centralia, a first-timer in Elma, or a regular at our Olympia location, these tips will help you level up your grooming game beyond the barber chair.
1. Start with the Skin
A fresh face goes hand in hand with a fresh cut. Men’s skin tends to be thicker and oilier, but it’s also prone to irritation from shaving and exposure to the elements.
Your routine should include:
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A daily cleanser (especially after workouts or yardwork)
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A moisturizer with SPF (yes, even on cloudy Washington days)
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Exfoliation 1–2 times a week to remove dead skin and prevent ingrown hairs
Pro Tip: Ask your barber what skincare products they use — we’ve got recommendations that work for your skin type.
2. Don’t Skip Beard and Mustache Maintenance
You wouldn’t walk around with bedhead — why let your facial hair go wild?
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Use beard oil to keep your beard soft and your skin moisturized.
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Trim your neckline and cheeks between visits for a cleaner look.
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Keep mustaches in check with a fine-tooth comb and a touch of balm or wax.
At The Refined Man, our beard services can help shape things up — just ask when you book.
3. Take Care of Your Hands and Nails
You don’t need a full-on manicure, but clean, trimmed nails and moisturized hands go a long way. Dry, cracked hands are common with seasonal changes — especially in winter — and they’re one of the first things people notice in a handshake.
Keep a hand cream in your car or at your desk. Trust us, it matters.
4. Smell Good, Subtly
Scent is powerful. A signature cologne can leave a lasting impression — but the keyword here is subtle.
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Apply cologne to pulse points (wrists, neck) and don’t overdo it.
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Choose a scent that fits the season: crisp and fresh for spring/summer, warm and woody for fall/winter.
Also: replace that old body spray from high school. You’re a grown man now.
5. Tame the Brows, Ears & Nose
Let’s be honest — wild eyebrow hairs or an untrimmed nose hair can ruin an otherwise polished look.
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Ask your barber to shape up your eyebrows during your haircut.
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Use a grooming trimmer at home for nose and ear hair — it only takes a second.
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Stay consistent. These little details make a big difference.
6. Clothing Counts, Too
While The Refined Man is all about grooming, your style extends to your closet. You don’t have to wear a suit every day, but a clean, intentional outfit elevates your overall presence.
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Keep your go-to pieces fresh and well-fitted
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Use a lint roller and keep your shoes clean
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Confidence starts with caring — and people notice when you do
Stay Sharp Between Visits
We’ve got you covered in the shop, but the effort you make at home is what keeps you consistently looking your best. Grooming isn’t vanity — it’s about discipline, self-respect, and showing up ready for whatever the day throws at you.
Need help finding the right products or want grooming advice tailored to your lifestyle? Just ask your barber during your next visit — we’re happy to help.
Book your appointment at The Refined Man in Elma, Olympia, or Centralia today — and take your grooming routine to the next level.
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