Because the right product can take your style from basic to badass.
You’ve got the cut. You’ve got the vibe. But if your hair flattens out, frizzes up, or looks like you just rolled out of bed (in a bad way), there’s one thing you might be missing: the right styling product.
Pomade, clay, paste — they all sound the same in the store, but trust us, they’re very different in your hair. Here’s a quick breakdown to help you lock in the right one for your style.
Pomade
Shiny. Smooth. Sleek.
Pomade is your go-to for classic, polished looks — think slick-backs, side parts, pompadours. It gives you shine and strong hold without drying stiff like gel.
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Best for: Straight or wavy hair
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Finish: Medium to high shine
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Hold: Medium to strong
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Use when: You want a formal, vintage, or ultra-clean look
Ideal for modern gentlemen or anyone channeling some Rat Pack swagger.
Clay
Matte. Textured. Natural.
Hair clay gives your style grit and grip — without looking like you tried too hard. It’s perfect for messy, matte styles with volume and movement. Clay usually thickens the hair slightly, making it a great option for guys with finer hair.
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Best for: All hair types (especially fine or thin hair)
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Finish: Matte (no shine)
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Hold: Medium to strong
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Use when: You want texture without shine or weight
Think casual, effortless, laid-back — but still sharp.
Paste
Flexible. Balanced. Versatile.
Paste is the all-around player — it gives some hold, some texture, and a natural-looking finish. It’s creamier than clay, lighter than pomade, and works great for everyday styles.
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Best for: All hair types and lengths
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Finish: Low to medium shine (depends on product)
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Hold: Light to medium (and reworkable)
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Use when: You want control with a touch of polish
Perfect if you want one product to handle just about anything.
Final Tips:
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Start small – A fingertip amount is enough. Warm it up between your palms before applying.
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Apply to dry or damp hair – For more hold, use it on dry hair. For a looser look, try damp.
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Ask your barber – Not sure what fits your hair and style? That’s what we’re here for.
Need help finding your perfect product?
Stop by The Refined Man — we’ll not only get your cut right, we’ll hook you up with the product that takes it to the next level.